The Gentle Art: How Mama Dogs Pick Up Their Puppies (And Why You Shouldn’t Try It!)

October 6, 2025 |

Mama dogs pick up their pups by the scruff of the neck, but your full-grown Labrador probably won’t appreciate the indignity of this gesture. What’s the right way to pick up a dog? And is there a time when you should or shouldn’t do it?

Have you ever watched a mother dog effortlessly pick up her squirmy little puppies by the scruff of their necks? It’s kinda fascinating right? As a dog lover and pet blogger I’ve always been amazed by this natural behavior. Today, we’re diving into the world of canine motherhood to understand exactly how dogs pick up their puppies and why they do it this way.

The Natural Instinct of Mother Dogs

Mother dogs have an incredible built-in instinct for caring for their young ones. From the moment puppies are born, mama dogs know exactly what to do – including how to safely transport them from one place to another.

When a mother dog needs to move her puppies, she doesn’t overthink it like we humans would She simply

  1. Approaches the puppy calmly
  2. Opens her mouth wide
  3. Gently grabs the loose skin around the puppy’s neck (called the scruff)
  4. Lifts the puppy and carries it to the desired location

This might look scary to us humans, but trust me, it’s perfectly normal and safe when done by mama dog!

Why the Scruff? Understanding the Science Behind It

So why do dogs pick up their puppies by the scruff of the neck? There’s actually some cool science behind this behavior!

The scruff is that loose skin around the back of a puppy’s neck. When mama dog grabs this area, something magical happens – the puppy instinctively goes limp and quiet. This response is called the “passive transport response” and it’s a survival mechanism.

This response helps in several ways:

  • Safety: Keeps the puppy still during transport, preventing injuries
  • Quietness: Reduces the chance of attracting predators
  • Efficiency: Makes the puppy lighter and easier to carry

The puppies aren’t in pain when this happens – they’re actually programmed by nature to respond this way. It’s kinda like when human babies have reflexes!

The Perfect Technique: How Mother Dogs Do It Right

Mother dogs are experts at carrying their puppies safely. Their technique is spot-on every time, which is pretty impressive considering nobody taught them how to do it!

When a mama dog picks up her puppy, she applies just the right amount of pressure – firm enough to get a secure grip but gentle enough not to hurt the little one. Her teeth are positioned perfectly to grab the loose skin without puncturing it.

What’s even more impressive is how the puppy’s body automatically responds. When picked up by the scruff, puppies:

  • Pull their legs in close to their bodies
  • Remain completely still
  • Often close their eyes
  • Slow their heart rates slightly

This is all part of that passive transport response I mentioned earlier. It’s like nature’s way of making sure the puppy cooperates during transport!

When and Why Mother Dogs Carry Their Puppies

Mama dogs don’t just randomly pick up their puppies for fun (though it might look that way sometimes!). There are specific reasons why they transport their young:

Keeping the Den Clean

One of the main reasons mama dogs move their puppies is to maintain a clean living environment. If a puppy wanders into a soiled area, mom will quickly retrieve it and bring it back to the clean nesting area.

Relocating the Litter

If a mother dog feels her den is unsafe or disturbed, she might decide to move the entire litter to a new location. She’ll transport each puppy one by one until the whole family is relocated.

Regulating Temperature

Sometimes the nesting area might get too hot or too cold. A good mama dog will move her puppies to areas with better temperature control.

Protecting from Danger

If a mother dog senses danger, she’ll quickly move her puppies to a safer location. This could be triggered by unusual noises, the presence of strangers, or other perceived threats.

The Age Factor: When Do Puppies Outgrow Being Carried?

Mother dogs don’t carry their puppies forever. As puppies grow, there’s a natural timeline for this behavior:

Age Carrying Behavior
0-2 weeks Frequent carrying, puppies fully responsive to scruffing
2-4 weeks Less frequent carrying as puppies begin exploring
4-6 weeks Occasional carrying, diminished scruff response
6+ weeks Rare carrying, puppies usually too heavy and mobile

By the time puppies are about 3-4 weeks old, they’re becoming more independent and mobile. The mama dog will start encouraging them to follow her rather than carrying them everywhere. By 6 weeks, most puppies are too heavy and active to be carried comfortably.

DON’T Try This at Home! Why Humans Shouldn’t Copy This Behavior

Okay, here’s where I need to get super serious for a minute. Just because mother dogs can safely carry their puppies by the scruff does NOT mean humans should try to do the same!

There are several important reasons why we shouldn’t mimic this behavior:

  • Different Anatomy: Human hands and mouths aren’t designed for scruffing
  • Lack of Instinct: We don’t have the natural precision that mother dogs have
  • Risk of Injury: Improper scruffing can cause pain, fear, or physical harm
  • Trust Issues: Can damage your relationship with the puppy

If you need to transport a puppy, please use both hands to support their body weight. One hand should gently support the chest and front legs, while the other supports the hindquarters.

How Mother’s Grip Affects Puppy Development

The way a mother dog carries her puppies actually has some lasting effects on their development. When puppies are properly scruffed by their mom, it helps them learn:

  • Boundaries: Mama’s grip teaches puppies about limits and control
  • Calmness: The passive response helps puppies learn to relax when handled
  • Trust: Proper carrying builds trust between mom and puppy

These early experiences help shape how puppies will respond to handling throughout their lives. This is one reason why puppies who have been properly raised by their mothers often grow up to be more well-adjusted dogs.

Fascinating Variations: Different Breeds, Different Techniques?

While the basic scruffing technique is universal among dogs, there are some interesting variations based on breed characteristics:

Small-breed mothers with tiny puppies might be extra gentle and cautious when carrying their delicate offspring. Large-breed mothers with bigger puppies might adjust their grip to accommodate the heavier weight.

Some long-haired breeds might have puppies with extra skin around the neck, making the scruff easier to grip. Short-nosed (brachycephalic) breeds might need to adjust their bite to compensate for their facial structure.

It’s amazing how adaptable dogs are, even with physical differences between breeds!

Signs of Proper vs. Improper Carrying

A mother dog who is properly carrying her puppy will display certain behaviors:

  • Confident, purposeful movement
  • Gentle but secure grip on the scruff
  • Puppy hanging limply and quietly
  • No signs of distress from either mother or puppy

If you notice any of these warning signs, the puppy might not be being carried correctly:

  • Puppy crying or yelping
  • Mother seeming uncertain or dropping the puppy
  • Puppy struggling instead of going limp
  • Mother grabbing any area other than the scruff

What To Do If You See a Mother Dog Struggling

Sometimes, especially with first-time mama dogs, you might notice she’s having trouble carrying her puppies correctly. While it’s usually best to let nature take its course, there are times when gentle intervention might be necessary.

If you notice a mother dog consistently carrying puppies incorrectly or seeming frustrated with the process, consider:

  1. Creating a smaller, more secure whelping area so she doesn’t need to move them as much
  2. Ensuring the environment is quiet and stress-free
  3. Consulting with a veterinarian if you’re concerned

Remember, most mother dogs figure this out just fine on their own, so try not to hover or interfere unnecessarily!

The way mother dogs pick up and carry their puppies is truly one of nature’s perfect designs. It’s a beautiful example of instinctive behavior that ensures puppy safety and proper development.

As dog lovers, we can appreciate this amazing maternal behavior without trying to replicate it. Instead, we should focus on supporting mother dogs during the whelping and puppy-raising process by providing a safe, clean environment and minimal stress.

Have you ever watched a mother dog carrying her puppies? It’s one of those simple yet incredible moments that remind us just how amazing our canine companions really are!

What other natural doggy behaviors have you noticed that fascinate you? Drop a comment below – I’d love to hear your thoughts!


Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only. Always consult with a veterinarian for proper puppy handling techniques and care.

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Is it Really Wrong to Pick Up My Dog?

This depends on the dog, including their personality, size, and weight. Older and larger dogs should not be lifted because of the dropping risk. But smaller, sociable dogs can be carefully picked up, especially if they tolerate (or enjoy) it. For longer walks or city tours, you can even buy a dog-carrier so that your dog can safely accompany you.

Many dogs are very cuddly and affectionate. If your dog loves to be picked up and held, it’s not wrong. Maybe your dog likes to be held when they are worried or cold. As owners, we are entitled to pander to their whims occasionally.

Do You NEED to Pick Up the Dog?

If our dogs could talk, we think they’d tell us that walkies is their fave part of the day! Our dogs love their freedom to explore and roam, the way nature intended. Being lifted and restricted in a chest-lock is not their idea of a good time.

In practical terms, the main problem with picking up your dog is that you might drop them. It’s especially risky when they are a wriggly pup (and irresistible picking-up fodder) or when you have children who are longing to cuddle the dog. But dropping your dog can cause serious injury and long-term repercussions, like arthritis.

However, there are some occasions when you may need to pick up your dog:

  • Dangerous objects on the floor. If your dog isn’t trained in recall or ‘leave it’ (which is a useful command) then you might need to pick them up to save them from walking over glass or right onto a snake.
  • Tired puppies. Pups should only walk for short distances. If you’re lost or your walk becomes longer than expected, it’s actually a good idea to carry your puppy so that their legs aren’t overexerted.
  • Other threats. It doesn’t happen often but you may occasionally need to pick up your dog because of another threat. This could be a dangerous dog, or a dog who has become aggressive and whose owner is not nearby. Don’t hesitate to pick up your dog if you can protect them from a fight injury. (However, don’t pick up your dog if they’re in a fight – you run the risk of being bitten yourself. It’s better to use an object to push the aggressor away or wait for your dog to become free.)
  • At the vet clinic or groomer. You might need to put your dog onto a table or platform so that they can be examined, brushed or clipped. To prevent your dog from being stressed by this, practice at home – see our tips below.

5 Ways Mother Dogs Carry Their Pups No Owner Should Copy (How Dogs Carry Pups)

FAQ

How should you pick up a puppy?

A human should pick up a puppy by cradling him gently with a hand beneath the baby’s rib cage. Mom knows instinctively how to carry her puppies without causing them pain or fear.

How do mother dogs carry their puppies?

Mother dogs carry their puppies by holding them by the scruffs of their necks or by placing a puppy’s entire head in their mouths. They move their puppies from one nesting location to another or bring a wayfaring baby back to the safety of the litter using this method.

Can you pick up a dog by its tail?

Never grab a pup by its neck or tail. While you may know not to yank on a pup’s tail or pick it up that way, you should also not do that with the puppy’s neck, even if you’re holding it by the scruff. You could injure or even kill the puppy. Also, don’t try to pick up the dog by a leg, as you could hurt the leg.

What should you do before picking up your dog?

Before picking up your dog, give them a warning. This might be a verbal cue such as “pick up”, which you can also pair with giving them a tasty treat. Your dog will soon associate this cue, and behaviour of being picked up, with something positive.

How do you take a puppy home?

Put your puppy in the carrier. Once you’ve filled out all the paperwork, it’s time to take your pup home. Put the pup in the carrier you’ve brought, making sure the pup can sit or stand in the carrier. Have someone sit in the back with him. Have the person you brought sit with the puppy.

How do you lift a puppy?

Lift the puppy gently, then slide your free hand under the puppy’s back legs and rear end. Once your hands are in position, lift the puppy up, continuing to support its chest and rump. Bring the puppy up to your chest and hold it against your body for added stability. If you like, you can use your forearms to help you hold the puppy more securely.

Do dogs pick up their puppies by the neck?

Yes, mother dogs pick up their tiny, newly born puppies by the scruff of the neck to move them, but this is not a method for humans to use. The loose skin of a puppy’s neck is a natural handle, and their small body weight makes it less painful. However, for adult dogs or even older puppies, picking them up by the scruff can be painful and is not recommended, as they are too heavy for their necks to support.

How long after a puppy is born can you hold it?

You can start holding newborn puppies for socialization around three weeks of age, but before that, only handle them briefly for essential care like weighing, and always with clean hands. Prioritize short, gentle interactions to avoid stress to the mother and puppies and prevent the spread of illness.

Why is my dog biting her puppies’ head?

A dog might bite her puppy’s head to discipline it, teach it bite inhibition, or correct its behavior, especially during the weaning process. However, if the biting is aggressive, it could signal an underlying medical issue like mastitis or low calcium, a lack of maternal instinct, high stress, fear, or a painful infection in a sick puppy. You should monitor the puppies closely for signs of injury, such as swelling, and seek veterinary attention immediately, especially if you notice any cuts or behavioral changes, as a prompt diagnosis and treatment can be crucial for the puppy’s survival.

Why can’t the father dog be around the puppies?

Male dogs cannot “see” their puppies in the same way a mother does because they lack strong paternal instincts due to domestication and human intervention in caretaking roles. Unlike their wild wolf ancestors, domestic male dogs evolved without the need to bond with or actively raise their young, often not even meeting the mother before mating.